GONE SAILING

Florida weather has returned to what Florida weather is supposed to be. We are taking the boat out tomorrow and will be gone a week. Tune in when we get back and in the mean time everyone have a great time and have lots of sex. I know I am hoping to get lucky. SH

Where to We Go From Here

We came to swinging rather late in life; as compared to others at the time. We had been married 30 years and both had seen our 50th birthday. Thanks to being blessed with good genes and a pendant for a healthy lifestyle, exercise and good diet, we could pass for couples in our early 40’s. Our earlier post has described how we began and the friendships we made. As with most beginners, we were very active at first, making contact nearly every weekend. As time went by and the new novelty wore off we settled down to attending an off premises club once a month. We hosted about two or three parties a year as did some of friends. We stayed within this circle of friends and did not actively seek new partners.

When I retired, we sold our house and moved to our sailboat with the intention of living aboard and sailing for five years. We needed to change our thinking about swinging. Were constantly on the move and we had no desire to meet a couple for what would be a one night stand. However, the summer we were in the Chesapeake Bay we did meet and play with two delightful couples and these turned out not to be one night stands. A couple of unexpected events caused us to change our long range plan from long term cruising to moving back to land and using the boat short cruises of just a few days duration.
Several years have now past since we first ventured into this lifestyle. It is one thing to be 50 and look 40 and quite another to be 70 and look 60. Sixty is still 60 and couples 40 are not inclined to couples old enough to be a parent. Add to this that the field of couples in the “mature” range is limited. We made the decision to go into semi retirement and only play with couples we already knew and since all of them lived in the Middle Atlantic States we would only see them if we were traveling north or they came south to warm their old bones in the warm Florida sun.
This is a roundabout way of explaining how I came to blogging. Rather than swinging I would write about our swinging experience and have an opportunity to read about others experiences. The latter has been a disappointment. Except for “Tales of a Swinger”, there is not much to choose from. Here we apologize for “stealing” their Swinging Wife Swinging Husband handles. I began to be drawn to post written by females and these seem to fall into two categories. One was written by females who were in a more open relationship where they were free to explore sexual adventures either as a “hot wife” or as a part of a relationship where the husband was also pursuing others. Some of these were also swingers but not exclusively swingers. The second group was females trapped in an unhappy, dysfunctional marriage and were writing about affairs or fantasies about affairs. While I enjoy the “hot wife” blogs, I am more drawn to the second group. I guess like an old fire dog drawn to smoke, the therapist in me wants to offer my two cents worth. I now seem to do more commenting than posting and I may well give up posting and just offer comments and emails to those who invite me to do so.

While we were away for awhile, some old bloggers have disappeared and some new ones have taken their place. I particularly miss Cherrie, The Sensuous Libertine. She and Hardin had what appeared to be a very open and healthy relationship. Her last post was a little troubling and I hope all is well with them. Kitty, who wrote “What is in a Relationship”, also, seems to have disappeared. On the bright side Always Aroused Gal, Lady in Red, Having My Cake and others are still around along with many new ones.

I am not sure where I will go with this. Continuing to write about our swinging adventure does not seem to be working. There are just so many ways to talk about fucking and I think I have about run out of ideas. I think I will continue to make comments about post about ideas I pick up from others. I would appreciate any comments others may have. SH

For those of you who have followed our adventure know, I did not begin wanting sex with a woman. When swinging was still in the talking stage I told SH I would never get with a woman. When we watched porn (and we both enjoyed porn) I would ask SH to fast forward through the girl/girl scenes. This changed when Adam and Angela invited us to spend a weekend with them. The four of us were naked together in the bed when Angela kissed me. It was just a brief, innocent little kiss but it was one a most wonderful sensations that sent shivers through my whole body. I like it and wanted more.
The next two or three times we played, there was some mild girl play that involved kissing, breast stroking and body stroking. But it was not enough; I wanted more. Then Bob and Bea invited us to their house for a weekend swing party. When they were at our house a few months earlier, Bea had been a little more aggressive and was the first woman to eat my pussy. I accepted the invitation to attend the party on the condition that Bea and I could get together for some private girl time and she could teach me how to make love to a woman. Bea was glad to accept my offer.
Bob and Bea lived about an hour’s drive from us. All the way there I was thinking about playing with Bea and when we arrived my pussy was wet and horny. The party began Saturday afternoon and by four o’clock everyone had arrived; about eight couples. The first hour or so we lounged by the pool socializing. Everyone knew each other from previous parties except for us. Soon we were all talking like old friends. After awhile couples began to drift off to find a bedroom and soon folks were lined up outside a room waiting their turn. Being the new girl I was in demand (bragging a little here) and before everyone staggered of to bed to sleep my pussy had been well serviced by several cocks. This part of the story is for another post. This post is about me and Bea.
We were invited to spend the night along with three other couples. Bea had suggested we have our time together on Sunday morning after breakfast. Bea arranged a breakfast buffet and people could graze as they pleased. All the women wore sexy sleep wear and there was no modesty. Son Bea whispered to ask if I was ready and took my hand to lead me to the bed room. Getting naked was not a problem since neither of us had much own. Bea took me in her arms and began to lightly kiss my face and upper body. She whispered to let her lead and for me to relax and enjoy. Soon her kisses found my mouth and her tongue found mine. I could feel the heat build in my pussy and I thought I might come right there. Bea slowly began to kiss her way down my body; pausing to pay homage to my breast. She began by lightly nibbling my nipples and slowly increasing the pleasure. As her mouth got close to my pussy; she teased by kissing all around before her tongue found my pussy. She began by making long tantalizing strokes the entire length of my lips before she found my clit and began to work my button. I began to feel light headed and worried I might pass out from pleasure. My hips began to move against her mouth as she fucked my pussy with her tongue. I could feel my organism begin to build in my toes and move up to my clit and exploded in Beas mouth and let out a scream that was heard by everyone in the house. Bob wanted to come see if I was OK but Bea told him to cool it; she had the situation under control.
After we cuddled for awhile and I got my strength back, it was my turn to pleasure Bea. I tried to remember how she had played me and began with kissing her breast, teasing her nipples and working my way down her body. Then I was at the moment of truth. My lips were inches from her pussy. This was the closest I had been to another pussy and I could smell the aroma and longed to taste her sweetness. The big question was would I do it right. As Bea did I began with long, slow stroke the length of her lips before capturing her clit between my lips. I slid a finger her pussy to find her “G” spot and as I massaged her button my tongue was flicking her clit... I must have done it right because Bea exploded in a cum and spilled her juices to my waiting mouth.

Since then I have enjoyed many female bodies. While cock is still my favorite, I don’t want to give up girls.

ARE YOU THINKING ABOUT SWINGING

Been thinking about how to re-start here after such a long absence. A year ago my urologist informed me my PSA had jumped from.05 to six. He ordered a biopsy which revealed prostate cancer. The bright side is I had several treatment options. I choose a rather conservative course. The first treatment was a massive dose of female hormones to reduce the size of the prostate. This brought on the dreaded hot flashes and a decrease in sexual activity. Next came a course of radiation treatment. This was two parts. First I got 25 doses of regular radiation followed two massive doses. I am now cancer free but sex is in the basement. Here is hoping 2009 will be a little more active than was 2008.

This blog began as a way of sharing our swinging adventurers with others who might be thinking of exploring the lifestyle. As Mandy said yesterday in Thinking About Swinging? swinging is a lifestyle. We were married about 30 years before we made the step. We thought about swinging for about ten or twelve years before we made the step. One major thing that kept us on the sidelines was the consequences of discovery. I suggest this is a consideration all should give thought to.

Once we made the decision to make the step the question of how to get started needed to be answered. This was before the internet. Then couples advertised in pulp magazines. We placed an ad in several and answer a lot of ads. This was a time consuming and frustrating system. Many advertisers did not answer their mail and it took considerable time to use the “snail mail” system then we discovered a swing group that hosted an off premises swing party in a nearby city. The group hosted a dance in a private club and couples could mingle, socialize and check each other out. If an interest was there the couple would invite you to meet them at a nearby hotel where the group reserved one or two floors for members. We were very comfortable with this group and made many long and lasting friendships. We continued to attend the monthly dances for about fifteen years. During this time the internet came into its own and sites such as Adult Friend Finder (AFF) became popular. There are now many sites that offer an opportunity to meet other couples. Many of these sites are much cheaper than AFF and we found we got a better response. In time, we met several couples where the chemistry was right and we hosted parties at our house. In turn our guest would have house parties, invite us and we would meet new friends. While getting started can require some patients, for those couples who will put some effort in looking for the swinging lifestyle there is considerable reward.

Over the years we have met many couples. Some were one night stands that were enjoyable but not enough chemistry for a relationship. Some have become lasting friendships that continue to this day. If you think swinging is for you, try it. It is fun.

WELCOME 2009

Hope everyone has a wonderful 2009 and that all your expectation come true. Look forward to following your adventures in the coming year.

Watching My Hot Hubby

We have not posted for nearly a year and now we are trying to get back to writing. It has also been just over a year since we last played with another couple. We have changed a thing or two about the post. We now call ourselves SH (Swinger Husband) and SW (Swinger Wife). This seems less awkward than the Mr. and Mrs. SW. We also were not reading any blogs during this time. The reasons for this will be explained in another posting.

I have been reading with interest the blogs written by and about Hot Wives or MILF’s. It is interesting that I have not run across any blogs written about Hot Husbands or HILF. While most of our swinging activity took place with another couple, we did enjoy some threesomes and we both played separately from time to time. When we played separately, we gave vivid and detailed descriptions when we were back together. I enjoyed hearing SW’s adventures as much as he enjoyed mine. When we were part of as threesome one was always a voyeur as well as giving verbal encouragement.

One particular party stands out in my mind I want to share. We had been corresponding for some time with a couple who lived some distance from us. On this particular weekend we had been visiting friends a couple hundred miles distance from us. As we were driving home on Sunday afternoon, we realized we would be passing through the town where this couple lived. We gave them a call on the cell phone and wondered if they were available on short notice to meet for dinner. They gladly accepted and we agreed on a restaurant and a time. I just happened to have a short wrap skirt and sexy blouse with me and changed in the car.

Bob and Ann were already in the restaurant when arrived. She was a true knock out. About 5 ft 4in, flat tummy and high, proud breast. She was wearing a short mini and a blouse that did not hide here charms. Although Bob had a handsome face, he was grossly overweight. Conversation was easy and soon we were chatting away like old friends. After dinner we were walking to the parking lot, and we thought that would be the end of the meeting, when Ann invited SH to put his hand up her skirt telling him she was sans panties. Not to be out done I opened my wrap skirt to reveal my bare bottom. Bob suggested we sit in his car a talk awhile. SH and Ann were in the back seat and Bob and I in the front. Ann wasted no time in letting SH know she was not there to talk. SH correctly assumed that Ann was a Hot Wife and Bob was a watcher. He also correctly assumed I was not turned on to Bob and he had the green light to do whatever he wanted. By this time Bob started the car and we were driving around the neighborhood streets. SW and Ann were now stark naked and Ann had SW’s cock in her mouth. Since Bob was driving and his watching was limited, I gave a verbal play by play. So Bob got to watch his Hot Wife and got to watch my Hot Husband